i stupidly managed to mess up two birthdays in one month. For my mom i didn't have anything ready for her on her birthday and the cards i'd have gotten for were at the same place we planned on meeting and i honestly think it's a bit tacky to get a card from the same place your planning on spending time in. i did make her a gift but i picked up hints that she doesn't really seem to like it that much, that was around nov 04 2009 and i missed my grandpa's birthday because i had my days mixed on thankgiving, i thought thanks giving was the 25th not the 26th and my grandpa's birthday was the 27nth and i wasn't able to send out his card until today.

both yesterday and today both my mom and my gram gave me the whole i'm so ashamed of you/ you should be ashamed speil over the phone which only makes me angry especially because my mom and my gram have a way of getting on my nerves extremely fast.

ew word barf, i needed to spew that out, the internet seemed to be quite a consoling friend.